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[QUOTE="Starnette83:1312518"]Hi, first off im really sorry what you are going thru, i know its not easy breaking up, especially being broken up with by someone u love so much. I'm almost 4 years with my b/f and when i think of him breaking up with me, i seriously just want to cry cuz i cant imagine my life without him, to the point were it really begins to worry me because everytime i mention marriage he brushes it off and makes me feel like he doesnt ever consider that with me, making it feel that there will be others after me..totally crushing!!! First of all if she dumped u to be with smeone else, she has made a huge mistake and i think that finally she will realize it, i dont know why she broke up with u, and maybe u dont either, but all we know is she has broken up despite the long time u spent together... Just know that its normal all the feelings u r going through....hurt, sadness, despair, confusion etc... You love her and she was your first love so there is no one else to compare to and right now all u can thinkis stuff like "shes the one for me", "i will never find anything liek this again, this is it for me".."Now ill be alone forever" Its normal....the person u were super close to is now gone, and whether she will come back or not..ud ont know!! right now the best thing u can do is give her space, maybe if she sees u doing ure own thing and not contacting her she will begin to miss u "U never know what u have until its gone" ... Also for ure own sake u need the distance, cuz if u remain in contact it wont fix anything..just give it 2 weeks or a month then maybe talk and see if maybe she wants to try again... If she doesnt u need to slowly help yourself, it wont be easy......it takes time, and its a day by day process, and dont jump into dating cuz most likely it will only make u feel worse cuz u will compare evryone to ure ex!! Here is what i did when my bf broke up with me... I cried..but not to him..i told him to not call me again, and so he didnt..so we spent a month not talking...basically 30 days not talking, not seeing eachother..NOTHIGN..it was horrible, my days just went by slowly, and everyday i battled to get thru the day..... Id wake up thinking of him, and id sleep crying thinking of him... Anyways after the 30th day i drank too much and called him.....i acted normal and then he told me he missed me, i acted kinda cold, cuz he broke up with me and i was still hurt and yet ashamed that i was the one who did the contact and he hadnt even bothered..anyways we are now back together and ever since he has been good to me...even tho im finding myself clinging to him again, so im trying to not cuz this annoys people... So give it time...dont call her...dont email her, basically dont bug her.. then after a month or more...u might wanna try contact..if she still doesnt wanna give it another try..then truly its meant to be...which means to not be togehter im sorry, but it sux, and lots and lots of people go thru it everyday, and it hurts a whole lot.... in my case, i just try to be strong about it and remind myself im not alone.... Maybe truly there is someone better out there for u, and right now u cant see that cuz ure so hung up on this one person...its better now then later..now that ure young and u can still meet new girls.. Goodluck and just think positive!!! when true love comes, neither partner gives up!! [/QUOTE]
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